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Your 2009-2010
Executive Council

President:
Ivy Gray
Vice-President:
Kris Stephens
Treasurer:
Dan Tillett
Assistant Treasurer:
Matt Blomberg
Secretary:
Jan Lee
EJMS Liason:
Linda White
KBMS Liason:
Kris Stephens
Color/Winter Guard:
Betty Fox
Volunteer Coordinator:
Jana Whitley
Concession Chairman:
Vicki Whitmire
Equipment Chairman:
Matthew Blomberg
Truck Drivers:
Theodore Rikeman
Kenny Hembree
Uniforms:
Linda White
Marching Competition
Chairman:
Vickie Whitmire
Awards Banquet:
Ivy Gray
Social Event
Coordinator:
Robin Wyrick
Web Coordinator:
Karen Jennings
Historian:
April Edwards
Financial Reports
contact
ejeagleband@yahoo.com
Interested in watching DCI
competition?
Let's get a group together.
July 31, 2010
We are going to get a list together
so sign up if you are interested in
going by e-mailing
ejeagleband@yahoo.com.  
Tickets are  $20 a piece  We will
try to get a bus to take us but there
will be an additional cost for that.
Final count will be first week of
band camp.
                What being a band parent has meant to me
            Caution - reading this will not change your life - Being a band parent will!

      
Going to high school can be a time full of uncertainty and tension for new freshman students.
However, when they are in the band they develop friendships during summer practices and at band
camp. By the time school starts, a sense of belonging has already emerged. Your student has a
community they can draw support from during the first anxiety filled days of school. This is the first
of many benefits your child will receive from being in the band.
      
Being a band parent gives you the opportunity to spend quality time with your children and their
friends. Your student may act like you're not there and request that you don't ride their bus, but if you
could see through the stewing cauldron of unlimited energy and boiling hormones, you would know
that they are glad that you are. It says to them, "Hey my parents think enough of me to give up their
Friday night or Saturday to ride a school bus full of teenagers... that's really cool! (But don't expect
them to express it in exactly those words.) It will sound more like, 'your going on the trip'? Well okay,
just don't be hugging me in front of the guys!"
      
Being a band parent means that your children will be challenged more and learn the meaning of
teamwork, individual responsibility, hard work and self-discipline. They will learn skills that will
enhance every aspect of their adult life from job performance to personal relationships. Being a band
parent means that you will develop some great friendships that will stand the test of time. When you
and another parent have pulled a big super-sized xylophone through torrential rain, sleet and
mud and then ride 6 hours on a cold school bus in wet clothes and shoes that squirt water with the
slightest bit of pressure, it has a tendency to draw you closer together. It's a bonding experience
similar to surviving 31 days on a desert island. You all leave saying, "if we can
survive that we can do anything."  
      
Personally, it also helps you to develop new skills that you will be able to use for the rest
of your life:
Organizational skills
- How many pizzas and boxes of bananas do you order for 160 band students?
Creative skills - How do you get teenagers to eat 5 boxes of left over bananas?
Communication skills - Before a competition you spend a good part of your Saturday asking, "Do
you have your black socks? How could you lose a tuba? When did you last see your pants?"
Give of Yourself - After you have seen how much the band program helps
these young adults, you will be willing to make great sacrifices for them. Some band parents have
been known to take off their black socks and swap with a student who thought dark purple would do.
Of course, the true sacrifice comes when you wear those purple socks for the rest of day!
      You will also learn a lot about riding (living on) a bus. Here are some rules/suggestions that will
help you survive… uh, I mean… enjoy those bus rides.
1.
Ear plugs - Will give a false sense of serenity
2.
Sleep - There are 37 different positions you can get into in a travel coach. Sleep is impossible
              in all 37. Sleeping on a school bus requires a prescription drug.
3.
Chaperones - Never have a separate bus of just chaperones. You need children on the bus so
              the chaperones won't act like children.
4. Put the
drummers in the first two rows!
5.
Bring plenty of water - Don't drink it until just before you get a rest stop.
6.
Take inventory after every stop. Parents hate it when their child is the only one that doesn't come
home. (We left one in a cemetery in New Orleans once, but he was a very fast runner and we couldn't
get away.)
7.
Always bring rain gear so when it starts raining you can say, "Yep, mine is on the bus too!"
8.
When the kids are performing, yell your lungs out! - It makes them perform better and
            reduces your tension for 9.
9.
Talk to the kids; ask them questions, you will be amazed at what you will learn. A 10- minute
conversation with them will make you a year or two younger.
10.
Tell the students on your bus that you have a heart condition that acts up when you watch Adam
Sandler videos.
    
  Being a band parent is a great experience. You and your child will develop friendships that
will last a lifetime. You will grow as individuals through the variety of challenging experiences. Enjoy
every minute of it because it will soon be over and you will wander around on Friday nights and
Saturdays without an excuse to avoid cleaning your garage.

Written by a father of 3 band students
Eleven consecutive years as band parents